Circumcision will always be a sore subject. There has been no surgical procedure that has caused as much controversy as the little snip, and the arguments against it tend to get really convoluted. The reason is simple enough: Although there are some definite medical benefits, it has become associated with religion making it it understandably unpalatable for those that dislike religion. However, there are some concerns that need to be addressed.
First off, there are some legitimate, if minor, medical benefits. Although its effects on most STD's is debatable, circumcision has been proven to be very effective when it comes to preventing the spread of HIV (there is a decrease of 36% to 66% in the number of cases in various areas). The World Health Organization has suggested that circumcision should be encouraged in areas where there are HIV epidemics, such as most of Africa. It also helps prevent penile cancer (penile cancer is virtually unknown in those who received neonatal circumcision) as well as some infections, such as those suffered by some 10% of those who are not cut before puberty. There is also the advantage that the complications due to the surgery are usually minor, with actual damage to the penis limited to just over a hundred patients a year in the United States. In short, there is an advantage to being circumcised with minimal chance of damage to the penis itself.
However, these benefits are minor enough that most major medical organizations do not recommend circumcision, and most insurance carriers worldwide do not cover the operation. Even the American Pediatrics Association tends to cycle through periods where they alternate between recommending the procedure and arguing that it has negligible effects. Even the argument that it enhances male sexual pleasure tends to fall in and out of favor, not to mention its aesthetic appeal. As such parents should be willing to go either way when it comes to the surgery.
[It needs to be noted that this is a process that needs to be decided on by the parents. Because it is seen as a body modification, some parents want to leave the decision with the boy himself. The problem is that most of the benefits of the surgery are felt during the fifteen years of life, and by then the boy is unlikely to want to make any changes to his penis. Straight up: If you feel like it's just cosmetic surgery, then don't sweat it. Period. It's worth pointing out that parents tend to make a lot of decisions for their kids that the kids don't like ranging from forcing them to eat vegetable to disciplining them to music lessons, so this is definitely a decision that is in their purview; if you have no problem with braces, which cost thousands of dollars, open up the kid to ridicule, and has little actual effect, you should have no problem with circumcision. However, if you want to leave it up to the kid, that's your decision and cool. Don't sweat it.]
There also appears to be some confusion between male and female circumcision. Female circumcision is an abhoration that should be abolished from the world. It is almost guaranteed to cause pain, create medical problems, and is done for some really stupid aesthetic reasons. While the medical benefits of male circumcision can be at least debated, female circumcision has none, and can actually cause sterility. As such no sane individual should be encouraging any kind of female circumcision.
So, what is the bottom line? Easy: If you live in an area with a lot of HIV, you are likely doing your son a favor by circumcising him. If you decide to go forward, the likelihood of a complication resulting in mutilation or sterility is extremely low, as it is usually handled by a surgeon (even rabbis that do the procedure must be thoroughly trained, and not all rabbis receive that training). If you decide otherwise, don't sweat it; just remember to clean out the foreskin and to teach the boy how to do it and you should be fine. Just remember that it is a decision that needs to be made by the parents either way, and as early as possible, and you should be fine. Just don't make a decision based on the grounds of religion, either because you are for or against; the decision should be based on the medical facts and not the emotion.
First off, there are some legitimate, if minor, medical benefits. Although its effects on most STD's is debatable, circumcision has been proven to be very effective when it comes to preventing the spread of HIV (there is a decrease of 36% to 66% in the number of cases in various areas). The World Health Organization has suggested that circumcision should be encouraged in areas where there are HIV epidemics, such as most of Africa. It also helps prevent penile cancer (penile cancer is virtually unknown in those who received neonatal circumcision) as well as some infections, such as those suffered by some 10% of those who are not cut before puberty. There is also the advantage that the complications due to the surgery are usually minor, with actual damage to the penis limited to just over a hundred patients a year in the United States. In short, there is an advantage to being circumcised with minimal chance of damage to the penis itself.
However, these benefits are minor enough that most major medical organizations do not recommend circumcision, and most insurance carriers worldwide do not cover the operation. Even the American Pediatrics Association tends to cycle through periods where they alternate between recommending the procedure and arguing that it has negligible effects. Even the argument that it enhances male sexual pleasure tends to fall in and out of favor, not to mention its aesthetic appeal. As such parents should be willing to go either way when it comes to the surgery.
[It needs to be noted that this is a process that needs to be decided on by the parents. Because it is seen as a body modification, some parents want to leave the decision with the boy himself. The problem is that most of the benefits of the surgery are felt during the fifteen years of life, and by then the boy is unlikely to want to make any changes to his penis. Straight up: If you feel like it's just cosmetic surgery, then don't sweat it. Period. It's worth pointing out that parents tend to make a lot of decisions for their kids that the kids don't like ranging from forcing them to eat vegetable to disciplining them to music lessons, so this is definitely a decision that is in their purview; if you have no problem with braces, which cost thousands of dollars, open up the kid to ridicule, and has little actual effect, you should have no problem with circumcision. However, if you want to leave it up to the kid, that's your decision and cool. Don't sweat it.]
There also appears to be some confusion between male and female circumcision. Female circumcision is an abhoration that should be abolished from the world. It is almost guaranteed to cause pain, create medical problems, and is done for some really stupid aesthetic reasons. While the medical benefits of male circumcision can be at least debated, female circumcision has none, and can actually cause sterility. As such no sane individual should be encouraging any kind of female circumcision.
So, what is the bottom line? Easy: If you live in an area with a lot of HIV, you are likely doing your son a favor by circumcising him. If you decide to go forward, the likelihood of a complication resulting in mutilation or sterility is extremely low, as it is usually handled by a surgeon (even rabbis that do the procedure must be thoroughly trained, and not all rabbis receive that training). If you decide otherwise, don't sweat it; just remember to clean out the foreskin and to teach the boy how to do it and you should be fine. Just remember that it is a decision that needs to be made by the parents either way, and as early as possible, and you should be fine. Just don't make a decision based on the grounds of religion, either because you are for or against; the decision should be based on the medical facts and not the emotion.